TANTRIC INITIATION FOR COUPLES
A YEAR LONG LUXURY LEVEL OFFERING
What if your relationship could transcend everything you’ve known about love, passion, and connection?
What if intimacy became an art form—refined, elevated, and limitless?
Designed for couples seeking deep levels of intimacy through sacred sexuality practices
Welcome to an exclusive one-year transformational journey designed for couples who desire to embrace sacred intimacy, sensual mastery and conscious lovemaking
Over the course of a year, you and your partner will be guided through four private retreats—each a week-long immersion into the mysteries of tantra, intimacy, and ecstatic embodiment
Each Retreat Focuses on a Pillar of Transformation:
SENSITIZING THE BODY
Awaken your senses, expand what you know as pleasure and develop profound energetic awareness
SEXUAL HEALING SUPPORT FOR COUPLES
Dissolve emotional blocks, restore trust,
open to deeper connection with yourself and your partner
TANTRIC MASSAGE + SACRED TOUCH
Master the art of pleasure, deepen intimacy, and create heightened states of ecstasy
TANTRIC SEX COACHING
Refine your practice into a transcendental experience of presence and divine connection
Experience sacred lovemaking & the joy of ecstatic union with your beloved
An Unparalleled Experience
This is not just a retreat—it’s a path to a new relationship paradigm
A Personalized Immersion into Sacred Intimacy, Sensual Mastery, Sexual Healing & Deep Connection
Awaken to the Next Level in your Relationship!
This tailored journey is crafted for those who seek a new paradigm of honouring connection—all within a luxuriously curated container
Work 1:1 with myself, an expert tantra teacher with years of experience, to rewire intimacy, expand pleasure and embody tantra in your daily life
Available in-person at a destination of your choosing or online in the comfort of your private sanctuary, this journey is designed to honor your unique desires, lifestyle, and energetic path.
A Bespoke Approach to Transformation
This is not a group program. It is a highly personalized experience tailored to the unique dynamics of your relationship, desires, and evolution.
You will work directly with an expert tantric guide, ensuring every session is exquisitely attuned to your journey.
✔️ Customized Rituals & Practices – Designed exclusively for your relationship.
✔️ 1:1 Expert Guidance – Private mentorship throughout your year-long evolution.
✔️ Luxury-Level Privacy & Discretion – A sacred space for your most intimate transformation.
✔️ World-Class Locations or Online Sanctuary – Immerse in a setting of your choosing, from opulent retreats to the privacy of your home.
Who Is This For?
This journey is designed for couples who:
✨ Desire to elevate their intimacy to a realm beyond ordinary connection.
✨ Are ready to heal past wounds and open to limitless love.
✨ Seek mastery in sensuality, pleasure, and conscious lovemaking.
✨ Are committed to investing in their relationship as a path of deep transformation.
This is an invitation-only experience for those who are truly ready to step into
a year of devotion, passion, and sacred love
If you feel the call, apply now for a private consultation
Together, we will explore if this year-long experience aligns with your deepest desires for yourself and your partnership
A new reality of love, pleasure, and intimacy awaits you
John Hawken's TANTRIC INITIATION is a seminal work containing the various elements needed to allow the body to open into a flow of energy, meeting with our consciousness to go far beyond the physical limitations of ourselves
what makes touch tantric?
'It needs an attitude: of respect, of honouring;
to work with energy and consciousness, to touch the spirit through the body
We create an experience in which the body is the temple of the spirit, discovering and honouring the divine within
We manifest spirit on earth through the physical body experiencing itself as a vehicle for the energy body
Tantra works with the energy body and is an initiation into our nature as energy beings, divine beings of fire and light. This initiation, or revelation, is the true purpose of our sexual energy - the longing to merge with something bigger and more beautiful than our egos'
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opening the body to the flow of life energy
Following the ideas of both Wilhelm Reich and traditional tantric teachings about kundalini, before working consciously with sexual excitement and power we must first open the body channels to let this life energy expand
A healing massage of the neck, shoulders, spine and pelvis gently removes tensions which block this flow and make us afraid of our own energy, power and pleasure
We prepare with Reichian massage of the spine to experience the muscles there as channels for energy flow rather than as the place where we hold back from life
We bring the spine back into alignment by softening the tense muscles that break it up into isolated segments
Then the kundalini massage enables us to open up the energy channels in the spine, the ida, pingala and sushumna, creating a balance between left and right, masculine and feminine energies in the body, and inviting the streamings of life energy to flow through the spine
In pelvic liberation we use deep massage to release the sexual energy that is held by habit and unconscious fear or shame in the form of tension in the muscles of the pelvis and thighs, especially the pelvic floor muscle
But first we use chest, arm and diaphragm massage to open the heart to accept and love our excitement, and cranial and neck massage to reduce the resistance of our minds and moral judgments and enable us to be simply aware of our excitement and pleasure without judging or analysing it
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massages for sexual healing
We continue the deep pelvic work with a healing massage for the perineum, the first chakra, and for the pelvic floor muscle around the anus, together with the two sphincter muscles internally
Tension in the first chakra creates a base of fear and struggle, which when healed and relaxed becomes a base of pleasure and openness, bringing more flexibility to the character
The rosetta has as many pleasure nerves as the sex, and it can be reclaimed as an important source of erotic energy
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yoni and vajra healing
The next step is a healing massage of yoni (the vagina) and of the vajra or lingam (penis)
The massage is done with the intent of healing, that is to make contact with whatever is there as energy in the tissues
This cannot happen when there is an expectation of arousal
Any pain, insensitivity or negative experiences from the past can be released so that the genitals become open for a deep, relaxed excitement
We energize the whole body and prepare it for a balanced and pleasurable flow of fire and water
The experience of energy flowing through our physical body enables us to realize that we are more than just a physical being: we are a point of consciousness becoming aware of itself as part of the life flow of the universe
This awareness of our connectedness to life and energy is the alchemy of ecstasy – standing outside ourselves
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the dynamics of pleasure
We teach techniques from different traditions for the massage of yoni and vajra for pleasure and excitement
The emphasis is on the relaxation into the energy to allow the pleasure to expand beyond the pelvis and through the diaphragm to allow the sexual energy to expand into the heart and then through the jade gate into the brain
We will also teach the expanded sexual orgasm technique of balancing the plus and minus poles of sexuality to achieve plateau orgasm and an extended state of expanded consciousness
For shakti we will explore not only Gspot massage but also other erogenous zones inside yoni and the science of yoni reflexology, both for pleasure and for healing
For shiva we explore techniques for being in choice whether to ejaculate or not and how the masseuse can guide and influence the path of non-ejaculation
The next step is to teach the client how to expand the energy from the whole body into the energy body
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sacred sexuality
This is the most important step into tantra, using the sexual excitement to create the experience of the energy body
We will explore how to teach the energy movement of contraction and expansion including the technique of the big draw, and massages of the energy body both within and beyond the physical body
We will also teach four handed massage, both to encourage surrender and a complete letting go, as well as for harmonizing and balancing the energy body
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a step by step initiation into tantra
We will learn and practice a programme of massages that take a client from being motivated largely by the desire for sexual relief into a full experience of the tantric energy
This programme offers a variety of massage experiences moving into different levels and creates a series of initiations deeper and deeper into the essence of tantra, an understanding of sacred sex and of the energy body
The client is encouraged to be less and less the passive recipient of a massage and more and more an active participant through breathing techniques and energy body movements.
Earth
expanding into whole body energetic sensation, moving from stimulation to sensitivity
Fire
from physical body pleasure to energy body pleasure
Air
breathing to fan the fire and open the heart
Water
letting go
Spirit
the body as your temple
Sacred Sexuality
entering the ecstatic dreamtime