WATER

'Emotion is the chief source of all becoming conscious. 

There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion'

- CARL JUNG

SURRENDERING TO FLOW

As our strong grounding in the earth takes care of our solidity and manifested form in the physical body,

we are ready to move up into this centre of fluidity, creativity and sexuality.

When we can go along with life, we can allow ourselves to be flexible and fluid around what comes our way.

- Affirm that you have the RIGHT TO FEEL and TO ENJOY PLEASURE

- Allowing your awareness to move INTO THE BODY and OUT OF THE MIND

- Embrace ALLOWING, FLEXIBILITY and SURRENDER in your life

- Realize that our perception of the BODY AS SOLID is an illusion, we are made up of 80% water

- Experience the body as a PROCESS rather than a STRUCTURE

You are both a SOLID and a FLOW, a WAVE as well as a PARTICLE

- Feel the SPINE to be a river, a CHANNEL, through which energy can pass

- Learn to SWING THE PELVIS naturally and freely along with the flow of breath

- Become familiar with the qualities of the SACRAL chakra (SVADHISTANA in Sanskrit)

DELVING DEEPER

These sessions are focused on experiencing the energetic imprints you are holding within yourself in your:

YONI (sanskrit word for the female sex including vulva and perineum) 

or

VAJRA (sanskrit word for the male sex including root and stem of the penis, testicles as well as surrounding tissues and perineum).

Here we are approaching touch on the sex organs from a perspective of releasing tension and unresolved emotional disturbances rather than arousal or gratification.

- What energetic imprints are within your sex?

- What feelings do you carry around your sexuality?

- By taking time and being present, we will work together to explore and check for any tense, sore or numb areas

- You can guide the depth of the touch, feeling into the points and gradually releasing anything being held onto

- Images, memories, emotions, feelings - all could arise during this process

- You will be held in a safe space where you can be free to express yourself.

- Take time to consider your emotional landscape - how easy is it for you to express your feelings?

- There is space to talk openly about any themes related to your sexuality

YONI MAPPING & HEALING

We are a flow of energy, and life leaves imprints through our physical body in the form of patterns or maps, which will be unique to each person's body.

A Yoni mapping involves exploring certain trigger points around the vulva (externally and internally depending on your wishes and boundaries).

By gently pressing them with deep tissue techniques you can become aware of:

- how you experience the sensations in different parts of your Yoni

- the range of sensitivity within the Yoni

- whether there is any numbness

- whether there is any pain or tension to be released

- any emotions you may experience as your consciousness is focused inside the core of your sexual self

- what kind of touch you prefer

What beliefs do you carry around your sexuality and pleasure?

This is space to talk openly about difficulty orgasming, arousal issues, vaginal dryness, pain during sex or menstrual problems such as PMS and cramps.

The possible benefits of Yoni de-armouring include:

- fresh blood and lymph flow around the sex organs for health and cleansing

- strengthened energetic connection between the sex and the rest of the body and mind

- an increased erotic sensitivity

- a feeling of greater emotional freedom around sexuality

Another key learning of this session is to practice being in communication with a giver and expressing what you need from them.

VAJRA HEALING

It is often thought that intimate de-armouring for men focuses only on the Rosetta (anus) but in fact there is much that can be gained from deep tissue release around and on Vajra.

This is a space to discuss freely fears and anxieties around performance in sexuality.

Orgasming too fast, or not at all. Having erections when undesired, or not having them when you wish to.

All such topics can often be felt into emotionally through deep present touch around the Vajra and pelvis.

In Vajra de-armouring, you can:

- relax into a space to really connect with your Vajra in a state of curiousity rather than eroticism

- understand Vajra in his complexity, aside from the simplistic ideas in our culture around men's sexuality

- experience a healing environment where I am present to meet Vajra with no subcontext or expectations

- connect Vajra back into the body, rooting deep into the pelvis, rather than 'hanging' disconnectedly out front

- feel in harmony with Vajra, with mind and body able to work together

- allowing Vajra to be sensitive rather than in need of more and more intense stimulation

- seeing Vajra as not only giving pleasure, but also able to receive energy from a partner

The possible benefits include:

- fresh blood and lymph flow around the sex organs for health and cleansing

- strengthened energetic connection between the sex and the rest of the body and mind

- an increased erotic sensitivity

- a feeling of greater emotional freedom around sexuality