MEET DANNI LOVEFOX
THE SOMATIC RELATIONSHIP COACH
MEET DANNI LOVEFOX
THE SOMATIC RELATIONSHIP COACH
Guiding conscious couples into deeper intimacy through somatic healing + connected pleasure expansion
I’ve seen how deeply our histories shape our capacity for authentic relating
Not only through memory or story, but through the body
The nervous system carries our past experiences,
our protections, our longings
These embodied patterns influence how we reach for each other,
how we pull away, how we speak, stay open, shut down or soften
MY APPROACH
SHADOW SOMATICS™ INTIMACY RE-PATTERNING
Over years of working with couples, one truth remains:
Most relationship struggles aren’t caused by a lack of love...
but by unprocessed shadow material, engrained reactive nervous system patterns and the protective strategies we learned to survive
I created Shadow Somatics™ to guide partners into deeper layers
This method weaves:
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somatic + nervous-system regulation
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attachment repair
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relational shadow integration
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trauma-aware intimacy work
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tantric-inspired connection tools
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embodied communication
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emotional expression
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conflict + rupture repair
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intimacy expansion
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sovereignty + self-responsibility
Experience a living practice of relating
that moves beyond fear, collapse or autopilot...
into presence, clarity + embodied choice
THE WORK WE DO TOGETHER
This is not talk-based coaching
This is felt, practiced, embodied work
We explore:
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how your bodies respond to intimacy,
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stress + emotional closeness
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how shadow patterns influence communication,
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desire + conflict
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how your nervous systems meet each other
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what creates safety, overwhelm or shutdown
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what opens connection and what closes it
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what stands between you and deeper intimacy
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what keeps love feeling limited,
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controlled or constrained
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what wants to expand
Our sessions help you move from:
reactivity → responsiveness
protection → presence
freeze → flow
survival patterns → conscious relating
tension → tenderness
avoidance → expression
fear → connection
This is how intimacy becomes a place of truth,
safety + real freedom within connection
WHO I WORK WITH
I work with conscious couples who:
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feel love but struggle with the patterns in between
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desire deeper intimacy but can hit invisible blocks
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shut down, withdraw or react in repetitive ways
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feel stuck in conflict loops or mismatched desire
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want emotional safety, clarity + deeper connection
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are ready to do real work, not just 'communicate better'
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seek expansion beyond repair
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want to grow through relationship, not away from it
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feel good together, yet sense there is more potential available
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are curious about tantric-inspired foundations to deepen presence, connection + erotic aliveness together
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want to explore intimacy in fuller, richer, more embodied ways — without performance, pressure or technique-driven teaching
If your relationship carries depth, potential, intensity or tenderness, but something interrupts your closeness,
or you simply know there is more available
— then this work is for you
MY BACKGROUND
My work draws from over a decade of intensive somatic, relational + intimacy-focused training, including:
Trauma Re-Negotiation + Nervous-System Regulation
Somatic Experiencing™ — 3yr Professional Training
(Dr Peter Levine)
Trauma-Informed Relational Healing
+ Attachment Awareness
The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy — 1yr Training
(Dr Ellyn Bader)
Tantric-Inspired Intimacy + Connection Practices
Certified Tantra Teacher — 4yr Training
(John Hawken)
Shadow Integration + Dark Eros Exploration
Approved teacher of the Dark Eros Modality
(John Hawken)
Breathwork + De-Armouring for Emotional Expression
Myofascial Release Bodywork
Biodynamic Breathwork for Trauma Release
(Integral Body Institute)
Sexual Healing for Couples
Intimate Healing Massage Training (John Hawken)
Sexological Bodywork Certification (Dr Joseph Kramer)
Sex Coaching for Couples
Certified Somatic Sex Educator
(ISB Berlin)
Mindful Touch + Embodied Intimacy
Certified Tantra + Taoist Massage Trainings
(John Hawken)
AN INTEGRATED, EMBODIED APPROACH
I weave these disciplines with lived experience, intuitive relational attunement + a deep respect for the body’s innate intelligence
THIS IS NOT
Spiritual bypassing, performance-based intimacy
or trying to 'talk it out'...
WHERE THE REAL WORK HAPPENS
In the body, shadow,
nervous system + living relational field between you
WHY I DO THIS WORK
Intimacy as a Catalyst for Transformation
I’ve experienced how closeness becomes the container for both our deepest wounds and our greatest transformation
Relationships Are Not Meant to Be Perfect
They are meant to be felt
alive. conscious. embodied.
The Space Where We Learn to Love
A place we can discover our truth,
explore sovereignty with compassion,
softening existential tensions into tenderness
My Mission
My mission is to help couples
cultivate an intimacy that feels:
emotionally safe
honest + openly expressed
sensually attuned and energetically alive
grounded in presence + truth
regulated at the nervous system level
resilient, spacious + free
Because when intimacy expands,
so does everything else
