The biggest relationship myth I hear? That if we were more similar, things would be 'easier'... As if sameness = safety As if difference = danger Which leaves the idea intimacy should feel like merging into one identical being But what most couples don’t realise is that... Similarity doesn’t create intimacy, difference does Difference is the spark, the tension, the erotic pull It's where desire breathes ✨ The part no one talks about? If two people in a relationship are the sa

What if the discomfort you feel in relationship is a doorway to liberation? Isolation isn’t the same as freedom. Aloneness can be sacred— a sign of sovereignty and inner steadiness But in excess, it can also mask deep-seated fears of intimacy, of being seen, of losing control True freedom is being able to stay with yourself  even in the arms of another To remain unhooked from old stories  of abandonment, control, or not being enough To breathe in closeness without collaps