The biggest relationship myth I hear? That if we were more similar, things would be 'easier'... As if sameness = safety As if difference = danger Which leaves the idea intimacy should feel like merging into one identical being But what most couples don’t realise is that... Similarity doesn’t create intimacy, difference does Difference is the spark, the tension, the erotic pull It's where desire breathes ✨ The part no one talks about? If two people in a relationship are the sa