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COUPLES JOURNEYS

remembering what your relationship was always meant to be

ENTER A NEW DIMENSION OF LOVE

One that feels emotionally rich, devoted + rooted in the truth of your bodies 

Whether you are feeling
inspired to celebrate your connection,
curious to awaken deeper devotion + desire,
longing to return to the softness you once shared

or ready to repair the moments that create distance...


I will guide you into the pathway that meets your relationship where it is,
and opens where it longs to go

Enjoy private support for couples ready to move beyond routine — where old patterns soften
and new ways of loving become possible

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THE THREE FLAVOURS OF COUPLES INTIMACY

There is no one way couples grow... 

Different seasons of love ask for different kinds of support  
which is why I've created these pathways
each one opening a specific dimension of connection

Most relationships expand through three core intents
devotion that longs to be tended

truth that rises to be met
desire that asks to be explored

Choose the pathway that speaks to you both  
and enter the work from the place that feels most aligned right now

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DEVOTIONAL
UNION

Couples Tantra Pathway

Slow down. Feel more. Let love become a practice.

+ sacred relating through mindful touch & tantric ritual

+ simple weekly connection & play rituals

+ breath, presence, eye‑gazing

+ intimacy as spiritual practice, not performance!

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FROM TRIGGER TO TURN-ON

Couples Coaching Pathway

Heal conflict. Build trust. Communicate with respect.

+ transform triggers into clarity & care

+ rebuild safety after ruptures

+ practice nervous‑system‑aware communication

+ turn tension into intimacy

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INTIMACY &
INDULGENCE

Couples Explorative Pathway

Push edges, expand pleasure, explore dark eros.

+ introducing Shadow Somatics

+ weave deepest desires, boundaries + aftercare

+ power play, role‑play + scene crafting

+ techniques for better sex that deepen your love

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

Begin in the way that feels most supportive for your relationship and let the journey deepen naturally

You can work with me

from anywhere in the world


or

through bespoke retreats and immersive ongoing work

ONLINE PATHWAYS

For couples who want powerful transformation without travel — with full flexibility of location, scheduling and the comfort of deep work from the privacy of their own space

ONE OFF SESSIONS

For couples who want flexible support

You could begin with a single session to explore the flavour of work that feels right for you

Choose between a

1.5hr somatic connection session

or

2-3hr somatic intimacy session

A GUIDED JOURNEY

A customized structured journey that matches your season of love

Weekly, bi-weekly or monthly meets to support a steady, grounded and well integrated transformation

Options range from a

1-month deep dive

to

full 6-12 month arc

PLAN A PERSONALISED VIRTUAL RETREAT

For couples ready for immersive transformation — without the travel time and costs

I offer 2–5 day virtual retreats crafted around a chosen dimension of connection — devotion, desire, intimacy or shadow repair

These retreats can be woven into

a 4-phase one year journey

for couples wanting a full relationship transformation arc

IN-PERSON PATHWAYS

For couples who want an immersive, dedicated space away from daily life to deepen
intimacy, clarity and connection

PRIVATE COUPLES RETREAT

For couples who want a luxurious destination experience

​​These 3-5 day sacred getaways are held in beautiful surroundings chosen to elevate intimacy, presence and sensual connection  offered throughout my travel schedule across Europe, Asia + Worldwide

 

Each experience is crafted as a unique devotional journey  
guided through somatic work, tantric-inspired intimacy rituals  
and repair practices within the flavour of connection your love is seeking

PREMIUM CONCIERGE

For couples who want the most personalised, private experience

3–5 day immersions — designed entirely around you and held wherever you feel most inspired


held within the comfort of your home sanctuary, or in a dream location of your choosing, to match the exact flavour of celebration or restoration you desire

Perfect for

birthdays, anniversaries, deep resets or once-in-a-lifetime moments together

LONG ARC IN-PERSON JOURNEYS

For couples ready for deep, lasting transformation held across the seasons of a year

A long-arc journey weaves together immersive in-person intensives 
with
steady online integration — giving you time to embody your learning, shift long-held patterns and grow your relationship from the inside out

You can expand your in-person intensive

into a full one-year relationship transformation,  
shaped through four immersive phases exploring every dimension of intimacy

Each phase includes a 2–5 day in-person retreat  
followed by tailored online support to help integrate the breakthroughs  
into daily life, communication and intimacy

Designed for couples who want depth, continuity  
and a structured path that truly rewires how you love

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WHICH PATHWAY IS RIGHT FOR US

If you're feeling disconnected or triggered

→ Trigger to Turn-On


If you're longing for softness + emotional closeness

→ Devotional Union


If you're craving play, desire or dark eros

→ Intimacy & Indulgence

If you're unsure where to begin,

start with a one-off session or a free introductory call

 


Your relationship will show us the right doorway

M E E T  Y O U R  G U I D E

Private Expansion Journeys for Couples Wanting More

with   D A N N I    L O V E F O X

Danni Lovefox — somatic intimacy coach guiding conscious couples

Relationship coach, certified tantra teacher + somatic sexologist

I love to inspire couples to heal, awaken and play:

with respect, devotion and delicious honesty

In not just the bedroom, but the full emotional, energetic + embodied depth of their connection day to day
In the deeper soul of their love

 

Whether you’re simply curious or seasoned seekers,

I support you both, gently and skilfully, to meet each other in new ways through powerful practices that open the heart

+ regulate the nervous system,

awakening a sense of the sacred together

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WHAT OPENS THROUGH SOMATIC INTIMACY WORK

When Emotional Safety Fades,
Desire Follows

Research consistently shows that emotional and physical intimacy are the strongest predictors of long-term relationship satisfaction


When emotional safety fades
desire often follows...


Touch becomes something you perform
not something you feel


Connection flattens into routine,
and even couples who still love each other deeply
begin to drift

Studies in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy show that
it is emotional disconnection — not lack of sex —
that predicts sexual dissatisfaction


And couples often wait years before seeking support,
by which time patterns of defensiveness, shutdown and misattunement
are wired into the nervous systems

But distance is not destiny

Disconnection Isn’t the End — It’s a Signal

Disconnection isn’t failure...
it is a signal from the relationship asking for attention


A sign that your bodies, your nervous systems
and your hearts

need a different way of meeting

Without conscious repair
resentment builds quietly
desire dulls
and the space between you grows tighter and more fragile.

But with the right guidance
there is a way back —
a way of returning to each other with presence, tenderness
and a deeper truth than before

Your Relationship Can Be Rewired

Your patterns are not fixed.


Intimacy, safety and desire can be rebuilt
through somatic practices that create new neural pathways
for trust, play + emotional connection

Through tantric-inspired intimacy rituals, co-regulation,
attuned touch and repair practices
you learn how to soften tension
heal long-held habits
and open a new relational field between you

Your bodies remember how to feel each other,

reaching with tenderness despite any fears or hurts
 

This is where intimacy becomes alive again

What Becomes Possible Between You

+ feeling emotionally safe in each other’s arms

+ communicating with clarity rather than defensiveness

+ softening triggers before they spiral

+ rebuilding trust after rupture

+ experiencing touch that is reverent and alive

+ awakening desire through presence, not performance

+ sharing sensual energy that nourishes both partners

+ feeling connected, grounded and intimate in daily life

Most of all, you learn how to return to each other,

again and again,

with truth, softness and devotion

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WORDS FROM COUPLES ON THE PATH

My boyfriend and I, a couple from Italy,

we have been together for over 6 years now,

sharing both our personal and professional lives

 

Recently, we felt the need to rekindle the spark in our intimate connection

and decided to try this online 3 hours tantra session with Danni

It was a transformative experience!

I've been curious about tantra practice in a while,

but always a bit skeptical on what the courses out there really teach you

With Danni we felt comfortable, she explained some of the basics of Tantra philosophy and then let us do some practical work with each other

 

Even after six years together, we discovered new things about each other

—things we hadn’t realized or explored before

 

Danni’s guidance was gentle, discreet and deeply insightful, helping us learn how to truly listen and communicate with each other on a deeper level

We had an amazing time and came out with a refreshed sense of connection,

both mentally and physically

Without a doubt, we would book another session in a heartbeat

We highly recommend it to other couples looking to deepen their intimacy

Thank you Danni!


— Felicia & Marc, Italy

PERHAPS YOU ARE WONDERING...

DO WE NEED TO BE STRUGGLING TO BENEFIT FROM THIS?

Not at all. Many couples come because they want to celebrate their connection deepen intimacy or explore desire in new nourishing ways. Others arrive in a season of tension or distance. This work meets you where you are and opens the next layer your relationship is ready for.

ARE ONLINE SESSIONS AS EFFECTIVE AS IN-PERSON RETREATS?

Yes — in different ways Online sessions create deep intimacy and emotional safety because you work from your own environment, where your real-life patterns reveal themselves, where you can continue to practice when the sessions or retreat are over, and where your bodies already feel familiar, relaxed + honest. They also offer a level of privacy that many couples find deeply supportive, especially for intimacy-focused work. Because I am not physically in the room, you are free to explore practices together with more ease and authenticity. At times you may even turn your camera or mic off so you can focus entirely on each other without feeling observed, while still receiving clear, step-by-step guidance. This creates a powerful blend of structure and autonomy — expert support held within the safety of your own space where deeper intimacy can unfold naturally and where new patterns can be practised in the context of your real life. In-person retreats offer a different kind of transformation — an immersive, beautifully curated environment, where time slows and your connection becomes the centre of everything. The surroundings themselves become part of the healing inviting depth, presence and sensual expansion. Both pathways are profound. The right choice depends on what your relationship is longing for now.

WHAT IF ONE OF US FEELS MORE READY THAN THE OTHER?

This is very common. You do not need to be in the same emotional place only willing to explore together. The work begins gently Building safety and attunement so both partners feel considered and at ease, moving at a pace that honours their body and nervous system. Readiness often grows inside the process itself.

IS THIS WORK SEXUAL?
WILL WE NEED TO UNDRESS OR TOUCH EACH OTHER?

No. This work is never sexual and you will not be asked to undress or do anything that feels uncomfortable. Somatic intimacy sessions involve guided presence eye contact, breath and partner-led touch exercises that you choose together. More intimate practices are optional, and always enjoyed with your partner in full privacy. For in-person sessions Any deeper erotic or sensual practices are taught and prepared for while you remain clothed, so you understand the principles, boundaries and the attunement needed to explore safely together. The practice itself is then completed in your own private space after I leave. Online this works just as powerfully You'll receive step-by-step guidance and then explore together with your camera and mic off so the moment belongs fully to the two of you... while still being held in a clearly guided + supportive container, where you can safely ask any questions that arise. The intention is never performance - it is attunement, so you learn to feel each other again in a way that is safe, enticing + reverent all at once.

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER OUR RETREAT OR JOURNEY ENDS?

You will leave with embodied tools, clear rituals and practices you can return to anytime. If you wish, you can continue with integration sessions, enter a seasonal pathway or begin a long-arc journey across four phases of intimacy. The work stays alive inside your relationship, long after the formal process ends.

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OUT OF THE SHADOW...
INTO THE HEART

A PRIVATELY GUIDED ONLINE COACHING JOURNEY FOR COUPLES

READY TO BEGIN?

You don’t have to know the whole journey
You only need to choose the first step

Begin with a single session
or follow the pathway your relationship feels drawn toward —
online, in-person or within a deeper arc of devotion and desire


You are welcome to start from the place

that feels right for your love now

Your love holds more

than you’ve yet touched

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