FROM TRIGGER...
...TO TURN-ON
Transformational Somatic Couples Coaching
A GUIDED JOURNEY FOR COUPLES READY TO ALCHEMISE CONFLICT INTO CONNECTION
What if, instead of repeating the same fights, you could heal the patterns that keep you stuck — right at their root?
This isn't just therapy — it's a somatic and tantric healing journey to turn your trigger cycles into emotional intimacy and erotic connection,
beginning with a 1-month container
If you're finding yourselves increasingly caught in a power struggle around the same mutual trigger, your relationship isn't necessarily doomed to fail...
But you may need support to untangle what's happening beneath the surface arguments — and discover a new pathway into conscious, connected relating
Your relationship is meant to be a place of love, intimacy + deep connection — a feast of pleasure, contact + joy rather than a famine of repeated withdrawals, stonewalling, avoidance or disconnect
But when triggers + unresolved attachment wounds take over, it can feel like you’re caught in a painful cycle of emotional distancing — far removed from the playfulness, joy + closeness that once brought you together
Trigger cycles aren’t necessarily a sign that love has failed — they’re invitations into a more honest, embodied + liberated relationship if handled well
From Trigger to Turn-On is a powerful somatic-based couples coaching process for partners who are ready to stop looping the same arguments... losing energy in cycles of blame, resentment + projection — and start building a relationship grounded in co-regulation, nervous system healing, deep mutual respect for each other's pain + conscious communication around points of conflict
Whether you’ve been together for years or are just beginning, this journey is for couples who value mutual freedom within emotional safety + the soulful depth of growth that comes from truth-telling in their connection
If you're ready to move from tension to tenderness,
from conflict to closeness,
let’s begin
What You’ll Experience in This Process
Most relationship conflicts aren’t just about words
— they’re felt in the body
Triggers can activate stress responses like fight, flight or shut down, making it hard to communicate with love and clarity
Through gently guided somatic techniques + deep emotional work, you’ll learn how to:
+ Recognize when your body is in defence mode
+ Shift from reaction to conscious connection
+ Rewire old patterns so you feel safe, seen & loved
You’ll also be supported in:
Meeting conflict as an invitation into deeper understanding + closeness
Discovering what truly triggers each of you — and how to explore with care
Communicating with truth, love + clarity even when it’s hard
Learning how to self-regulate + co-regulate when intensity rises
Exploring what’s possible when you each feel safe + fully expressed
Honoring your uniqueness while deepening the devotion between you
Supporting each other’s healing + evolution as a conscious team
Creating a shared relationship vision rooted in joy, desire + truth
Reigniting the spark through open-hearted,
shame-free conversations about sex
This work supports both traditional and alternative relationship structures,
is fully kink-aware and LGBTQ+ inclusive
FROM CONFLICT TO CONNECTION
The Four-Phase Method
The From Trigger to Turn-On process is a layered approach to relationship transformation — one that grows with you
Rather than offering a one-size-fits-all fix, this method honours the natural pace of nervous system healing and relational expansion
It begins with foundational tools and experiences to interrupt painful cycles, then moves into deeper emotional, erotic + shadow work as trust and connection grow
Whether you're looking to repair after rupture, reignite new layers of truth + intimacy or build a conscious relationship that honours both individuality + devotion — these four phases are designed to meet you where you are + guide you toward what’s truly possible
Each phase is optional and can be entered into based on your readiness
Many couples feel immense shifts in just one month — others choose to continue, integrating more depth, power + sacred connection with each layer of the work
THE ONE MONTH COUPLES COACHING CONTAINER
4 x 90min Online Relationship Coaching Sessions
Over four weeks, we dive into one of your most familiar relationship conflict cycles — the fight you keep having, the dynamic that stings, the pattern that distances you from love. Each session is carefully designed to shift your nervous system responses and offer new embodied experiences that rewire how you show up together: Session 1: Co-Regulation & Grounding — Learn how to anchor one another in nervous system safety, presence, and somatic connection. Session 2: One Partner Held — Go deep into one person’s emotional triggers, offering space to be seen, felt, and supported. Session 3: Switch Roles — The other partner is held in their pain, learning to soften defenses and be met with compassion. Session 4: Integration — Explore practical communication tools, boundaries, and agreements that honor the wisdom discovered.
INVESTMENT €800
Includes four 90-minute online sessions
Integration practices
Optional email check-ins between sessions
PREMIUM OPTION €1200
Includes everything above
Plus up to 60-minute intent setting & integration calls
Personalized practices sent as pdf
Priority telegram support for you both during the process
This month alone can create profound shifts in how you communicate, relate + reconnect
But for couples ready to go further, the path opens from here...
...to not just shift one dynamic, but fully rewire the relational foundation + step into a completely new way of being together
The three-, six-, and twelve-month mentoring options offer a progressive path to deeper emotional integration, erotic expansion + conscious partnership
This longer-term work supports lasting change — not just insights, but embodied shifts you can carry forward into every part of your relationship
Together, we’ll move from addressing conflict to cultivating emotional mastery, sacred sexuality, shared vision + sovereign devotion
You’ll learn to meet each other not only in pain,
but in passion, power + profound presence
Whether you continue for three months or a full year, these mentorship layers help integrate the deepest desires of your partnership — and sustain them in real life.
THE DEEPENING
Over three months, we explore: Nervous system-informed communication techniques Working with truth-telling and emotional honesty Rebuilding trust through presence, not pressure Honoring your individuality within a connected partnership Exploring tantric intimacy practices and rituals to deepen your emotional and physical bond Each session builds safety while expanding your erotic and emotional range as a couple. You’ll begin to notice more freedom, better conflict navigation, and deeper moments of turn-on — even in the face of challenge.
Y O U R G U I D E
D A N N I L O V E F O X
Somatic Couples Guide | Nervous System Healing Facilitator | Founder of SNATCH
I'm Danni — a somatic sexologist, trauma-informed bodyworker + relationship guide who's spent the last decade supporting individuals and couples in the depths of their relational evolution
But before any of that, I was a woman navigating my own wounds
For years, I found myself trapped in relational dynamics that felt like a push-pull — craving closeness while bracing against it
Triggers ruled my nervous system
Old trauma distorted how I saw love, safety + self-worth
I longed to be met fully,
but didn’t yet know how to stay with myself and with another
What changed everything wasn’t more strategy,
it was learning to bring presence to my body
To explore where my truth was braced, frozen or waiting to be spoken
And to find the relational edge where two people can remain fully themselves while staying fully in connection
This work is my life’s devotion
It’s an honour to guide couples through the discomfort,
the tenderness + the erotic possibility that lives on the other side of rupture
If you’re ready to build a relationship where both people feel free, safe + deeply seen — I’d be honoured to walk beside you
Words From Couples on the Path
Last week’s session was really powerful
Connecting with my inner child and recognising how she tries to communicate during moments of trigger brought so much insight!
Thank you for holding such a supportive space — I actually found working online even more effective, as it allowed me to stay in the comfort of my own home and take time to integrate afterwards
I’ve already noticed moments where I’ve been able to apply the tools from our session. It truly feels like a new door has opened in me
— Mara & Christoph, Berlin
Thank you, Danni, for your transformative guidance
Your session had an incredibly positive ripple effect on us
Through your coaching, we gained invaluable tools to navigate our triggers and deepen our awareness of our attachment wounds
The exercises you shared with us were both insightful and practical, and we now see how these practices can help us create lasting change in our relationship
What we truly appreciated was how you helped us explore intimacy beyond just the sexual realm. It’s about living a tantric way of being in relationship — balancing freedom and boundaries while cultivating authentic, lasting connection
This work has opened our eyes to the deeper dance of love and intimacy, and we look forward to continuing our journey with you
We’re excited to embark on a longer-term coaching experience
We believe this continued guidance will allow us to truly integrate these practices into our everyday lives and create a more profound connection with each other
— Jan & Sophia, Germany
Begin Your Couples Coaching Journey
Your first step is the one-month container
It’s where safety is rebuilt
Cycles are revealed
And turn-on starts to return through the most unlikely doorways:
your honest emotional experience
Book a free 20-minute introductory call to explore whether this couples coaching journey is right for your relationship
And a path forward that honors what you both truly desire