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SHADOW SOMATICS

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Reclaim Your Power at the Root with this Somatic Shadow Work Intensive

A grounded, nervous-system-aware space to explore the complexity of shame, power and embodied presence


 

"The act of transgression breaks through the barriers of fear and shame,

and that moment of liberation creates a charge of energy on which we can ride to ecstatic experience

It also asserts a sense of self as independent of social norms, a sense of individuality"


– John Hawken

Shadow Somatics: 1:1 Nervous System-Based Shadow Work

There are parts of you that were never met
Not because they were unworthy —
but because they were too much, too tender, too wild,
or simply not understood

In Shadow Somatics, we meet those parts together.

This is a one-on-one journey of nervous system-rooted shadow work —
a space where your body becomes the compass,
your impulses are honored,
and your patterns are held with reverence rather than shame

We work gently, yet precisely —
tracking the subtle ways your system has protected you,
and inviting more safety, more sensation,
more choice

Whether you're exploring themes of power, control, intimacy, surrender, sexuality, or self-expression —
this work invites what has been hidden to rise into the light

Not for performance. But for integration.

So you can live and love
from a place that is honest, rooted, and free.

Dare to enter into those parts of yourself that you fear,

finding freedom within the awareness that you so long for

What is consent? Wheel of consent overview

How to navigate power dynamics and boundaries

Yes - No - Maybe - Yes, but...

Recognizing, speaking, embodying your no

The pleasure of rejection

Understanding trauma responses and how they show up in you or a play partner

Practice play exchange using embodied consent

This experience is for you if…

You freeze or shut down when confronted with intensity — and then judge yourself


You want to stay present and grounded, but your survival responses often take over, and you feel powerless or ashamed afterwards

 

You may have trouble speaking up around your boundaries in the moments that matter

You crave deeper intimacy or leadership but secretly fear becoming controlling or being controlled


There’s a deep longing in you — to lead, to open, to surrender, to be truly met

But with that comes a quiet fear:

'If I take charge, will I hurt someone?' 'If I let go, will I lose myself?'

You’ve done talk therapy or mindset work,

but your body still holds tension and defense


You understand your patterns intellectually,

but they keep repeating, especially under stress or in sex + relating

You long to test your edges — but don’t know how to do it safely


You want to explore intensity, boundaries and power in ways that are

real, embodied, and held, but have no idea where to start

You feel stuck in people-pleasing, collapse or rage

— and you’re ready to find a new way


You’re tired of living from old survival responses,

and want to meet life with grounded, honest presence

SHADOW SOMATICS TASTER

over two sessions of up to 2,5hrs

750 EUR

 SHADOW SOMATICS WEEKEND

a journey of up to 14hrs (including breaks)

1250 EUR

along my travel dates

2000 EUR

at a location of your choice

with the additional expense of travel and accommodation

A NOTE ON BOUNDARIES

These sessions are learning experiences designed to support you in embracing and integrating shadow aspects of sexuality and power to come further into the light of self-acceptance and self-love

This work welcomes erotic energy as sacred and valuable

However, this container is not one of mutual erotic engagement

 

I do not engage in nudity, sexual touch, or erotic exchanges

I remain clothed throughout sessions and hold a clear trauma-informed container rooted in presence and professional integrity

You are always in choice about your level of expression and exposure

Nudity or erotic expression may be part of your exploration, but will never be required

This is a space where you can bring your desires without shame, and be met with compassion, containment, and honesty — even when those desires may not be directly lived out within this container

Appointments will be confirmed after a telephone consultation as to your intention

Session times are from arrival to departure and allow for an opening discussion and/or extended coaching, explorative somatic work and closing reflections

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A SEVEN DAY GROUP IMMERSION

RIGHT TO THE CORE OF EXISTENTIAL THEMES

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DECEMBER 2025

Available in Berlin, Lisbon and London as well as internationally

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tantra trained · trauma informed

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for singles + couples on the path to sacred union

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