The act of transgression breaks through the barriers of fear and shame,

and that moment of liberation creates a charge of energy on which we can ride to heights of pleasure and ecstatic experience. It also asserts a sense of self as independent of social norms, a sense of individuality
– John Hawken

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This journey together reflects upon the essential question:

what is your basic attitude towards your sexuality, and as a result, life in general?

Is it fear or is it excitement?

 

We can look at fear as 'contracted excitement'... and this existential predicament is the focus of Dark Eros

How to transform and expand states such as 'power over', resistance, guilt, anger and withdrawal

into 'power with', love, surrender, lust and being in contact?

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Can you allow yourself to expand the kick from indulging in the 'forbidden' into a whole-body relaxed experience of pleasure?

Or is there a limitation in needing immediate release from this contraction?

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Moving away from tension around sex, perversion, power and transgression into a relaxed playfulness and acceptance of all the parts of you so often shunned is key to this part of our journey together

You are free to be seen and accepted as you truly are

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This path allows you to meet face to face with your shadow parts

Those places in you that you avoid, project, hide, reject

Make contact with repressed anger, shame, grief or desire

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- Investigating erotic drivers as related to your CORE EROTIC THEME

- Looking into fantasies and their relevance for working through unconscious and unfinished emotional business

- Polarity and its role in shadow work

- Reclaiming desire, reigning it in from an object-subject dynamic

- the drama triangle and where you are placed within it

- Themes around taking up too much or not enough space

- Consent, boundaries and patterns around saying yes and no in life and love

- Existential themes within sexuality​

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THIS 4-WEEK ONLINE CONTAINER INCLUDES

Introductory questionnaire around your core erotic theme

Weekly support through a personalised 60-minute online coaching

Structured email correspondence featuring specially selected exercises for your journey